(A post by thewanderunner on Brieflections.)
^^^^^I love this so much.^^^^^
I could say x’s family is broken because her husband is an alcoholic, and she has an eating disorder and likely a personality disorder.
I could say y’s family is broken because her husband calls his children fat and lazy and no-good.
And I could say z’s family is broken because she openly despises her husband because he travels all the time and cheats on her with a younger colleague and possibly many others.
But I would never say those things. So why is it okay to say them about divorced families? My children are doing okay, and in my heart I know they are growing up to be two wonderful, caring human beings who know they are loved and cherished.
My children have been knocked around a bit. And life will knock them around more, like it always does. But I think they will be more prepared than most. They are not broken, and they will not be broken easily.